Itīs fantastic! thanks a lot!!!
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Itīs fantastic! thanks a lot!!!
Ohhhhh thank GOODNESS I don't have to stress about pinpointing O, as I am one of those women who really don't have very obvious signs of O' ing. One less thing to stress about while swaying! One up for hopefully lowering T levels!
It is often the frequency that is swaying, not the day you DTD on. ??????? So for a pink sway so I dtd every day or abstain ?? Im confused - for my 3 boys i think we dtd every 2nd day or less right up to ov
Yes, for a pink sway you would have your husband release every day for 7-10 days before your attempt OR abstain for 7-10 days before an attempt OR have him release 2-3 times a day for 2-3 days before an attempt OR have him release once, throw it away, then have your attempt as soon as he is able to DTD again (within 1-6 hours).
DTD every second day is ideal for a boy.
What about DTD every second day WHILE DH continues to release on the non-DTD in between days? This thought occurred to me since sperm stays alive for a little bit but would help keep count within low but still decent timing for pregnancy?
I.e. instead of daily bd after fr, after FR for 7-10 days, to DTD one day, he releases the next day, you DTD the third day, etc, until O (if you are BDing through o, anyway)?
Yep, that's fine! I do think it's probably best to give it at least one month doing a strict sway with just one attempt just to see if you can conceive that way (most people won't be able to, esp. if they're doing a lot of other things to sway) before you add in multiple attempts.
If I can get a positive OPK, I might do just one attempt. If I were, do I jump and dump?
My weight is just sitting and not drastically lower than my conception weight with my son, so trying to not get down about it but have to TTC this month...
i don't have alot of faith in timing ladies. all my girls were conceived on o day. finally my little man was conceived either 5 days before o with a 14 day abstance ( we had a new baby in the house and i was breastfeeding and tired) 12 months after our dd6 was born we got ds1! i would pay attention to diet then to stress out about timing.
Thank you for this post! It's helpful, and actually encouraging! I HATE the whole timing thing.
Question though:
WHY does frequent release sway girl?
WHY does abstinence sway girl?
I wish I understood the why, so I could feel more confident in these things :)