If someone has started a support thread, please don't take it over yourself

[atomic sagebrush]

Ladies, if a person has begun a thread for support after hearing they didn't get their desired gender, please do not use that as a place to start chatting about your own sways. It's very hurtful to the person and then leaves me with a big dilemma of whether or not to delete the entire thing or to try and pick and choose deleting certain posts, which is hard to do. I can then end up accidentally deleting the entire thing.

Annndd, I just did :/ Apologies to those of you who were talking in that thread but the original poster was finding it upsetting I just accidentally clicked the wrong thing trying to delete only her posts without everyone else's.

[Blue_for_4]

Good reminder, Atomic! Will try to be careful not to respond to sway talk on a GD thread! Definitely feel badly if I’ve done anything that hurt someone else. Thank you.

[atomic sagebrush]

No not at all, no one needs to feel bad or apologize, because many times people just reply to posts they see in their feed completely divorced from the origin of the post. It's just hard when people ask for support and then they get notifications, assuming it's on their behalf only to find other people still talking with hope and excitement, and has nothing to do with them at all. So just letting people know that's possible and to keep an eye out for it.

[Thefinalcountdown]

Noted!


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