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    PLEASE continue to have intercourse with your husband with protection (pull out is fine) during the other parts of the cycle.

    The number of attempts is meant to be UNPROTECTED attempts. It's fine to have sex with protection at other times.

    The cardinal rule of swaying is "if daddy ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." Husbands WILL rebel and in some cases have even refused to TTC when we make too stringent swaying demands.
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    Thank you! He will be happy to hear it, lol. He has already threatened to pull the plug on ttc at all if things get too strict and I didn’t agree to DTD more often. I know it’s not considered to be BDM approved, but I have to put my marriage as a priority and trust that God will take care of the rest.


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    I have two sweet little boys, desperately praying for pink this time!

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    Has there been any updated research on this or is it still multiple BD for blue? Just curious because (I know it's not reliable to see it on fb) a lot of women in another group swear by one BD for boy and multiple for girl so I'm just curious if we did it backwards or if they're all just saying stuff without knowing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by polaris.kai View Post
    Has there been any updated research on this or is it still multiple BD for blue? Just curious because (I know it's not reliable to see it on fb) a lot of women in another group swear by one BD for boy and multiple for girl so I'm just curious if we did it backwards or if they're all just saying stuff without knowing.

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    It is still multiple attempts for blue.

    I know they say that stuff on other sites but it is based on completely debunked Shettles claims and IT DOES NOT WORK at all. You really really really set yourself up for sway opposites having one attempt for a boy. Many of our opposites were in people who had one attempt.

    The majority of those of us with lots of boys (myself included) had sex unprotected out of the fertile window and then just skipped our fertile window or did pullout when we weren't trying. Then when we were trying we did the same thing only who had tons of sex in the fertile window. My only child I had sex only once in the fertile window was with my daughter.

    If you're interested, there is a big long story about how we discovered one attempt swayed pink if you'd like to hear it.
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    I was reading about couples successful attempts to sway pink & alot of them seem to have achieved this with dtd one day before ovulation. Would you recommend?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baby286 View Post
    I was reading about couples successful attempts to sway pink & alot of them seem to have achieved this with dtd one day before ovulation. Would you recommend?
    Many thanks, B

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    Ever since we found out about one attempt, I've always recommended having it at positive OPK (that is, for most people, the day before ovulation). This is not because timing sways, but because it's great chances of conception with one attempt and it's also easy to pinpoint using the OPK. Many people's cycles change dramatically when swaying so they can't rely on their old patterns to have an ttempt on a certain cycle day, so the OPK are helpful in that scenario.

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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Ever since we found out about one attempt, I've always recommended having it at positive OPK (that is, for most people, the day before ovulation). This is not because timing sways, but because it's great chances of conception with one attempt and it's also easy to pinpoint using the OPK. Many people's cycles change dramatically when swaying so they can't rely on their old patterns to have an ttempt on a certain cycle day, so the OPK are helpful in that scenario.

    So yes I do recommend that day as a good day to conceive with one attempt.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baby286 View Post
    Thanks Atomic.


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    Hi Atomic i want some advice.

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    Ok! What can I help you with??
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Ok! What can I help you with??
    Omg I am so happy this page is still active! Atomic, can I message you or can you point me in the right direction of girl diet? Sorry I know this is the wrong thread for it! It had a recent response from you when I was reading it!

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