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Great essay :D
I'm not mad at you! It isn't your fault. I just feel like the ideas that were bouncing around a few months ago were more of the "DTD every other day" variety, which we did, but then I may have O'ed early which cut our attempt short. I just wish I had DTD more days in the fertile window. If I end up with a boy, it won't matter, but I am pretty sure I am having a girl, and frequency of DTD is my one huge regret. :( I think the site is so new, there will be new things all the time that will make me think "Oh, yeah, I should have done THAT!" as new research comes out.
DTD every other day got me plenty of boys Hobbers, still got my FX for you!
Great essay Atomic, love your work :bowdown:
Our first 2 cycles were failures, so i definitely think we need to stick DTD more often. Which of these options would you suggest I do?
(DH is taking LR (AF-O), we are both taking cranberry, im taking zrytec, and using rephresh and sylk, plus strict LE diet)
Option 1
- DH has 10 FR followed by DTD on o-3, o-2, o-1, and o
Option 2
- DH has 7 FR followed by DTD on o-6, o-4, o-5, o-3, o-2, o-1, and o
Im guessing option 2 is more 'conception' friendly? But which, if either, is more pink sway friendly???
Plus I am always plagued with the dilemma of how much people really are willing to or want to change, KWIM?? Like I keep erring on the side of trying to keep things somewhat similar to traditional swaying (whether or not I think it's really best to do or not) because I think people don't want to change that much, and maybe I just need to stop doing that. :/
FWIW, Lassie, we're aiming for closer to option 1 this month. Starting with CD1 of my cycle, DH has been releasing and discarding twice a day. Starting on the evening of CD10, we're planning to have his evening release be with me (y'know, DTD). It'll depend on when I ovulate as to what "0 minus" that'll be (0-4, 0-3, etc.), but I would say we should hopefully get in a fair number of attempts.
The way I figure it, the longer it takes to get pg, the easier it'll be to start slipping from the principles of the diet. So throwing if throwing in some extra attempts means the diet is stronger during the successful cycle, it's worth it.
GL! What cycle day are you on?
Thanks AS and Drama :)
Im on CD2, but not attempting this cycle as DH will be away at the crucial time :(
So May it is! I have a good feeling about May :)
:fx: drama that this is your month!!
This is the one aspect of my sway I'm really questioning/regretting. We did the deed at 7am after abstaining for a week and then did the deed later that afternoon. I'm really hoping the Rephresh, AciJel, and my husbands hot showers lowered his sperm count enough. I know there is no way of knowing, but I really hope attempts don't weigh that much into a sway.