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    I wouldn't have you skip another cycle - after all, you may not get pg this month either (I hope not, but it happens.) If you wait around for all the stars to be in alignment, you end up never TTC, KWIM?? Blood sugar and pH drop almost right away and since you've already lost the 20lbs, you've done a lot to lower T and E levels already.

    Baby is crying so I'll have to get back to you more tomorrow, but just wanted to know I would totally go for it.
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    Hi,

    Can anyone please help me? I'm trying to sway blue. Can you please tell me how to plan BD if I don't know my ovulation day? I have PCOS and my ovulation day is never the same (if any!). OPKs don't work for me and temp usually rises AFTER O so, how do I plan BD and how often? I'll really appreciate your help!

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    Yay I found my answers thank you Atomic

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    Quote Originally Posted by True Blue View Post
    Yay I found my answers thank you Atomic
    Ok! Sorry I wasn't able to answer more quickly! These children are kicking my butt LOL.
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    Hi AS! I have a question! This oopsie baby was conceived likely 4 days before O or 3 days if our pull out method failed. Of course, I decided to google 4 day cutoff for giggles and IG had a few posts that said that having a cutoff like this sways blue bc of fake O surges that happen.

    I know we over here do not believe that timing sways, but I just wanted to see if there is any truth to this at all and see what you thought.
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    Timing doesn't sway. The studies that claimed to show that, I have read and they are the "old skool" studies where people didn't even know how to pinpoint ovulation (not that we can nowadays either) and are totally unreliable.

    What CAN sometimes happen is that the type of people who are able to get pg from really long cutoffs are probably more boy-friendly to begin with, because without a LOT of sperm and a LOT of good EWCM, it's impossible, the sperm would have all died off before the egg ever showed up. So ~if~ there is any real trend where long cutoffs ~seem~ to sway blue, it's an artifact of higher fertility swyaing blue and nothing to do with the day you BD on.

    IG has no clue about stuff like that. Trust me, I just wrote a 100 page book about the subject and have read about everything out there to read at this point LOL. Most people, most months, don't have fake surges and it's pretty unusual really (does get more common with pink sways but still very far from the norm). that is just a bizarre thing to even say - how can some relatively rare event be swaying in any consistent way??
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    Ha ha!!! I love your answers AS! It is so hard not to think they know what they are talking about when everyone quotes things like it should be common knowledge!
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    Beautifully, honestly put. Your messages are so clear, concise, truthful, and elegantly put. What a way to deliver a (somewhat) brutal reality check.

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    Hopefully not TOO brutal!! Welcome to the site BTW, let me know how I can help.
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    PS - I will update this essay but wanted to be sure you knew that one attempt has subsequently shown itself to be vastly superior and I no longer really recommend more than one attempt (at least not at first.)
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