Is the general consensus the same for blue- 3 attempts in the 5 day fertile window (O-3 through O+1)?
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Is the general consensus the same for blue- 3 attempts in the 5 day fertile window (O-3 through O+1)?
Yes! That's what I'm having people aim for and if you fall a bit short and are only in with 2, that's still seeming to help!
Thanks atomic - I'm new to this and I have a question. I am getting older, almost 39 - husband 42. Timing is an issue due to this. I understand update on 1 attempt being the best for girl sway. We are dieting, taking supplements (but not to many), I am using rephresh, going to use sylk as lube, sudefed, I think that covers most, unless I have missed something else we should do. So do you recommend positive OPK and then attempt? What about DH releases? No release for a while before attempt or frequent release before attempt. Any suggestions would be great, husband and myself willing to do anything, but some of the things seem to be debunked by you nicely so we would like to sway, but no added stress unless it will help.
If you are older I would have you leave out the jellies, Sudafed, antihistamine, and all frequency patterns. Have DH release every 2-4 days and then stick with the one attempt.
The jellies, antihistamine, and release patterns have not gotten it done. their results are equal to or lower than the overall success rates of the site and the "inverses" (which is the number of people who got girls without them) is also equal to that same %. THis indicates that they are doing nothing to sway and really cut odds of conception by a lot.
I have a question with my dd I remember we DTD once and it was around 1-2 days before ovulation, she wasn't planned but I strickly remember this night. Also we didn't dtd for almost a week before. I been ttc for two months but not hardcore and using ton of rephresh which I now dropped. I am on cd 12 and will be ovulating on cd 14 I am very regular. And I can tell from my opks, my ph is at 4.5, will it be okay to try today? Or wait till tomorrow? I am not worried about rushing to get pregnant, just really want another DD.
Will I increase my odds of a boy if I would try again on ovulation day?
One attempt is swaying strongly pink regardless of what day you DTD on. timing does not sway, it has been totally and completely debunked http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...le-timing.html
Thanks I will see if it works if not then better Chance next month, this is the way my dd was concieved, so I really do believe by it
I have a question about DTD.
I have my hubbie release himself every 2 days. I expect my O next weekend, sunday of monday. So when we go on with the releases every 2 days, he will have his last release on saterday.
Can we DTD then on sunday? Does he have to release once in the morning?
And when my positive OPK is on saturday? Then he released last time on thursday, so 2 days earlier. Isn't that too boy-friendly?
I'm sorry about this issue, but i'm kinda freaking out about this...I want to do just one attempt, but since i use Clomid i want to have a good shot at BFP and pink :)
We have found the one attempt is SO much better than any frequency pattern that you should not worry about how often he releases 2-4 days because the frequency patterns simply are not working.
DO NOT have him release once in the morning! YOu are on Clomid, so you need to be in with a viable attempt and that will cut odds of conception too far
Thank you Atomic!
I'm calming down again now :)
Having the possibility to ask all my silly questions or worries is such a relieve!