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    Help! I just found out Im pregnant and so scared!

    I have been on this site for a couple years. During this time I have altered my diet and habits to be more girl friendly if we were to conceive. My DH agreed on Mothers Day that we would try for one more. We were planning on swaying next spring. Well Hello BFP! We have used the rhythm method for years and had no surprises. My two boys were planned but I wasn't intentionally swaying (Although I was doing a lot of boy friendly things). I am in SHOCK! I didn't even write down when we dtd but I had checked beforehand to make sure we were in the safe zone. Well apparently not! I know we dtd before my fertile days and after. I took a cheap pregnancy test and I am late. I scheduled a doctors app and hope to have an ultrasound soon. I am only 4 weeks enough to get a positive but I had taken one a week ago and it was negative. Girl friendly things include only dtd once before and after my fertile days. Being very active. Losing weight, taking Sudafed and Benadryl, eating a low everything diet and some girl friendly foods, and being under a lot of stress the past month. Things that concern me is my CM was very wacky this month. Cloudy and thick but not much Ewcm. I also drank Dr Pepper more than I should, Sweet Tea, ate some in the morning sometimes, having an O during dTd, and definitely not knowing the exact date. Has this happened to anyone? I don't know if it was enough and I am trying to prepare myself for another boy. I was going to plan the perfect sway! Lol. Well God had other plans apparently. This is our LAST ONE. I need support bc I cannot rely on my family to understand. I haven't told my DH yet but I will. Please help.

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    Congratulations! hoping its a pink one for you!


    Cycle one, Genesis Feb 2013, 2xx BFN :-(
    Cycle two, Genesis June 2013, 3xx BFN :-(
    Cycle three, Genesis May 2014, 2xx 7dpt BFP!! 1st Beta 11dpt 405.7 :-) 2nd Beta 15dpt 2304. 6wks 6days 1 Heartbeat seen!!!
    12 week scan shows a beautiful baby, very happy!!!!!
    20 week scan all perfect and it really is a GIRL!!!

    Our little daughter is finally here, safe and sound x

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    Good luck and FX for pink!!!
    !!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!

    LOOKING FOR YOUR SWAY PLAN? Have you checked the coaching forum? It will be posted in the same place your questionnaire is! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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    Congratulations and Good luck I hope the changes you made bring you your DD
    Prayed and swayed Boy . . .
    Blessed with a beautiful Girl
    Thank You God



    "Each of us is the result of a thought of God. Each of us is willed. Each of us is loved. Each of us is necessary."

    Pope Benedict XVI

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    Sounds like a sway. I think every sway still have Some boyfriendly things.
    I also O'ed.
    Hope its your pink one!
    Mom to

    THX Atomic and gender dreaming forum/members. For your knowledge and support to make our dream come true and family complete!

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    for pink! Does your DH knows it now? I feel honored we are the first one to
    know

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    Sounds pretty girly, good luck and congrats!

    My Ovulation Chart
    currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after removìng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    I told him last night. yes you guys were the first! The last two years you guys and your stories have been such an encouragement to me. My DH took it well. He was pretty shocked though. But we are in a good place. <3

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    Good luck honey! Lots of ladies have gotten girls from oopsy babies just before they planned to start swaying! X
    Sent from my Windows Phone 8S by HTC using Tapatalk

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    Congratulations and good luck
    5 Year old DS - The most amazing kiddo ever!!


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