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    Do you ever wonder?

    Hi everyone!

    So I sometimes think about what would have happened if my first child would have been my desired gender. I first got two sons and then a daughter. I wonder what it would have been like if I got a girl first. Would I also wanted a second girl? Or a son to have both genders? Would I still experience gd when I would be pg with a boy then? Or maybe even have gd with a second girl?
    Would I even want a second child? Or would I be perfectly happy and content with just one daughter?
    Well they are just thoughts as it didnít happen that way lol!
    Does anyone else wonder about this too?
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    Hiya,
    Iíd hoped that when I had my daughter that I wouldnít mind which gender I had next but if anything itís intensified my wish for another daughter.
    Itís mad, even after a few days she was born I knew thatís what I wanted and it only got stronger when I saw friends with little boys. They were loving and sweet, I just felt fundamentally that I wasnít a boy-Mum.
    I often think now how Iíll feel if I conceive DD2 and then want another if gender concern will strike again!!!


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    its interesting to think about isnt it.. i think for me it would've changed everything, i had major GD with my first baby.
    if id had my desired gender first i would've been happy and able to enjoy both the pregnancy and my baby, but i know i would have still wanted a girl just as much for #2,3 and probably #4. after that maybe id suffer GD with girls who knows!!
    having said that i know my dh would really want boys, would i feel like i needed to have boys for him? honestly i think i would and id probably be on here swaying blue
    i think having boys after already having had girls would of been such a different experience compared to what it was like having boys while having awful GD.
    now 6blue3pink after 3 GD sways xx

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    I always wanted 5 or 6 kids so I figured I would just have a mix.

    I had fairly strong gender desire with my first, for a boy, and was just lucky enough to have him. I do not think I would have had gender disappointment if he was a girl - I was thrilled to be having a baby but did want a boy, mostly because I felt like I got along better with men than women at that point. With my second, I didn't care a bit either way. While I thought a girl would be fun I loved my first son soooo much that I was absolutely thrilled with a second boy. But after that, a bunch of stuff went wrong for us and we went 13 years without any more children even though I still longed for a big family. Finally things seemed like they were going well, I got pregnant with the 3rd and still at that point was ok with girl or boy. During that pregnancy, a bunch of old wives' tales and the Chinese Calendar all said girl, and I got invested in that idea, and then had gender disappointment when I found out. Then I went onto have another boy and my girl, the 5th. But regardless, I did want 5 kids, wouldn't have voluntarily deviated from that plan, just always assumed as I think most do that there would be a mix.
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