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March 15th, 2015, 08:56 AM #1
Want to try again
Hello Everyone. I haven’t been on this site for about 3 years but still kept my membership. I’ve been busy raising my 2 DD in the meantime. I’ve decided that I didn’t want to have a 3rd child because both my daughters are a handful, I’m in my late 30s and financially it would be tough. The main reason is I don’t want to take the chance of having 3 DD since I had bad GD when I found out I was having DD2. Anyway I’ve been snooping around this website for a while and feel I have to write something.
I found out I was pregnant in January – an oops pregnancy. I was almost depressed that I was pregnant because I really didn’t want a 3rd child and I definitely didn’t want a 3rd girl. After a while I started accepting this pregnancy but was still scared about having 3 kids. This week (week 10) I found out that the embryo wasn’t forming and there is no heartbeat. It was basically an empty sac. I am scheduled for a D& C this week. I thought the news wouldn’t bother me so much since I didn’t want to be pregnant in the first place but I was heartbroken. I cried for 3 days. This whole experience messed with my head. I had all my pregnancy symptoms and bloodwork was fine and then found out about this. This was a mind game. I even avoided a family party this weekend because people are constantly asking us if we are going to try for another one. I couldn’t handle that.
So my DH and I talked about trying again. I think I do want to try again after this experience. But, if I do try I am most likely going to purchase a personal plan to sway for a boy. I feel if I am going to try again at least let me try to sway and see what happens. After all of this I still want a boy. I should just want a healthy pregnancy, right? I feel horrible about that. I just want to get through this procedure and move on quickly since this experience has been very painful. I hope it gets better. Just wanted to get all of this off my chest since I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this.
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March 15th, 2015, 09:23 AM #2
I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish you all the best with your sway!
DS1 (2012)
Due 7/13/2015 ! Swayed pink and I am blessed to be with and (TWINS!)!
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March 15th, 2015, 09:29 AM #3
So sorry for your loss xx
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March 15th, 2015, 11:36 AM #4Swaying Advice Coach
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March 15th, 2015, 12:33 PM #5
Welcome back I am so sorry for your loss.
gorgeous DS1
gorgeous DS2
Praying and hopefully soon swaying for a precious pink princess to further complete our family
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March 15th, 2015, 12:54 PM #6
Welcome back bluedreams, I'm so very sorry for your loss
Good Luck with your future pregnancy and sway!!
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March 15th, 2015, 01:04 PM #7
I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you God and Our Lady
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March 15th, 2015, 02:42 PM #8
Im so sorry for your loss. This is the place you can be sure to be supported and comforted. Welcome back and best of luck xxx
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March 15th, 2015, 05:11 PM #9
Thank you for all of your support and wish everyone luck on their sway.
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March 15th, 2015, 07:23 PM #10Dream Vet
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Welcome back. I'm sorry to hear of your loss and how it happened. I had a MC just like that too and it is a shock and messes with your brain. I really hope you can get pregnant with a healthy boy. Goodluck. I think it is still normal to want your DG even though a healthy pregnancy is really important too after a loss. I was lucky to have healthy twins on board next time but I still hoped so bad that one would be my much longed for girl. There is no reason that you can not have both! I didn't get to sway but you will have that chance and there are great results with the sways here lately, especially the blue ones.
DPs sons 21 +13 11 + our 6 4 year old identical twins!
I might actually be over my deep yearning for a and it's an exciting feeling
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