Newbie has so many ?'s......

[marwants 2girls]

Hi All-
I finally decided to join after being in the "dark" when reading about this gender swaying stuff on-line. We have 2 children and why I feel we are so blessed to have 1 of each, we are longing for another girl. If you were me and wanted another girl, would you (a) do the shettles method OR (b) 0+12 which I know nothing about....I had my first girl 3.5 years ago with the shettles and a 5-6 day cut off and no diet restrictions.

I also need info on all the abbreviations that you all use and can someone gie me info on WHAT sort of prenatals can interfere with acidity??Also besides the ovulation sticks and charting CM- how can I try for the O+12. How do I know how to go from the time of O to +12?? Any help ASAP would be GREAT!!!! Thanks!!!

[dannikins]

im new here too, and am also wanting to try for a girl, i have 4 boys already, and im seriously outnumbered...lol
i have found all this swaying stuff to be very confusing and sometimes conflicting, so any experienced advice would be great, good luck, i hope you get your girl....

[ELP]

I personally wouldn't worry about the timing too much and instead concentrate on the diet side, I would choose the low nutrition for a girl option personally. Just have a read through site, try and gert through all the stickies on the girl section and if you can manage it try and do the boy section aswell, that way you can pin point what may have influenced yourself most for blues and you can make double sure you avoid that

[rainbowflower]

welcome!
I would also personally not do either Shettles or O+12. I'm swaying pink and we'll DTD through O as that will increase the chances of pregnancy too. I think that the studies done on swaying show that diet is the most effective way to sway and that timing doesn't sway at all (some even say DTD on ov day sways pink, others say the opposite. If there was a swaying factor to timing you would expect them to agree). So I'll be doing a girl friendly diet, trying to lower sperm count by getting DH to release lots, J&D, antihistamines, etc. and doing lots of wishing lol

[Flava]

Shettles did not worked for me so I say no to that. And I think O+12 is not even real it's just a made up thing which is super hard to do because you just don't know when you exactly O by the hour .
So far all studies show that diet works the best. So I hope it's true!

[zanacal]

Shettles did not worked for me so I say no to that. And I think O+12 is not even real it's just a made up thing which is super hard to do because you just don't know when you exactly O by the hour .
So far all studies show that diet works the best. So I hope it's true!

I agree - the woman who 'discovered' O+12 was in her late 30s, had a sickness bug and her husband didn't even finish properly. Surely those are the things which swayed!!

Hi and welcome marwants! Have you read this thread?:

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...Your-Pink-Sway

[dannikins]

thanks so much zanacal, those links are a HUGE help, its nice to be able to read something that actually makes sence.....

[Babydoctor]

Just wanted to say hi and I look forward to getting to know you

[atomic sagebrush]

First of all, check out the following links, they should answer your questions and if they don't, let me know! We don't do everything quite the same as they do on some other sites, so sometimes the first read through can be a bit confusing.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...COMPLETE-Index!!! (this is all the how-to essays in one spot)

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...Your-Pink-Sway (this is just the basic links for pink swayers)

This are the O+12 essays http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...istory-of-O-12 (there are three parts and the link to the second part is the "how to" and is at the bottom of the first essay. You should prob. read all three of them through to decide if you even WANT to do O+12. I am not a fan of O+12.

Abbreviations are found here. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...on-Translation

[atomic sagebrush]

im new here too, and am also wanting to try for a girl, i have 4 boys already, and im seriously outnumbered...lol
i have found all this swaying stuff to be very confusing and sometimes conflicting, so any experienced advice would be great, good luck, i hope you get your girl....

It is conflicting at times because the evidence has not seemed to support some of the swaying tactics that are used on other sites. But that's ok! They have a different way and it has worked for some people. My goal is to unravel the mystery of gender ratio and then use that info to build a better, more reliable sway. Anything that is confusing at first, please ask because there are ALWAYS reasons why I might suggest a different strategy than what is recommended elsewhere.