4 boys at 40 - do I risk a sway?

[Zenzazoo]

All same husband here too. Btw. There was an article in "second families" due to divorce and I was like - we started a second family but skipped the divorce! Lol


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[atomic sagebrush]

It's funny because my mom will introduce me to people and she invariably says, "She has five kids, ages 24, 20, 7, 6, 3 and they're ALL with the same man!" Haha she doesn't even realize she does it. I just laugh inside. Even when she doesn't say it, people almost always ask me "so this is your second marriage, then." No, we're just weird.

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes. Yes. And what education and joy it brings to the older kids too right? Today the violent video games are so intense. We could not compete but this little guy we have pulls them away from it and they giggle and play with him and they remember joy and love and nothing can replace the gift of that. It is such a blessing for everyone! Even the ones who complain want to get in on it once they arrive!!!


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I completely agree with you, I think my older sons have learned so much from having the little ones around. I had much younger siblings growing up (I was 11 and 13 when they were born) and I learned tons from it. Not just childcare stuff but responsibility and self-control.

[Beautifulrainbow]

Strange I guess people don't expect anyone to stay together for a long time anymore my boys are much closer in age than your but I still get asked are they by the same father sometimes.
They are they just all look different to each other.