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    No newbie

    Hi everyone!

    So I posted a thread here yesterday under Tammie78. Somehow that one can’t be read.
    So again a new account now. Also been here as Mickey2014.
    I’m a single mom of two boys (9 and 8) and a girl (almost 3).
    My girl was conceived without swaying. So just got extremely lucky.

    Although i’m done having children, I have these thoughts lately of getting pg again. It’s this little wish of being pg just one more time and to experience total happiness about the baby. Without any anxiety about gender. To enjoy the ultrasounds and not be afraid of seeing the gender.

    Was wondering if anyone else has these same thoughts if you already have your dg.

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    Thank you for reposting, sorry about that. I love your kitty cat!

    I think that's normal to still think about a new baby now and then. Even us really old ladies still think "aww wouldn't it be fun" sometimes. (trust me, there's a 13 year gap between my 2nd and 3rd kids - I just kept coming back to the idea and couldn't walk away without a few more kids!) This is especially true if you had a gender preference from the first and never got to experience that feeling of a pregnancy without GD rearing its head. Some people also want to give their daughter a sister, although of course it's just as possible it would be another boy (as I know you know!) But yes, totally normal feelings!!
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    Yes of course a sister for my daughter would be perfect lol!
    But I wouldn’t wanna get pg for a girl as I very well know it could also be a boy.
    And as I think of it now I really wouldnt mind either way. But gosh i’m also an oldie lol! Will be 41 in september well I guess you have to draw a line at one point and accept that it cannot always be the perfect picture you’ve imagined or imagine. And I am actually perfectly happy with what I got and can live with that! How could I not? I’ve got both genders AND my desired gender as well!
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    As for the kitty, yes she’s gorgeous isn’t she? It’s a ragdoll. Got two actually. They’re 6 months now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue-blue-pink View Post
    As for the kitty, yes she’s gorgeous isn’t she? It’s a ragdoll. Got two actually. They’re 6 months now.
    Nice! We had a beloved kitty who was basically a mutt, but she looked just like a Ragdoll and the vet even wrote that in her description. So I have a very soft spot for Ragdolls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue-blue-pink View Post
    Yes of course a sister for my daughter would be perfect lol!
    But I wouldn’t wanna get pg for a girl as I very well know it could also be a boy.
    And as I think of it now I really wouldnt mind either way. But gosh i’m also an oldie lol! Will be 41 in september well I guess you have to draw a line at one point and accept that it cannot always be the perfect picture you’ve imagined or imagine. And I am actually perfectly happy with what I got and can live with that! How could I not? I’ve got both genders AND my desired gender as well!
    yes that's the thing! For a while after my 4th boy, I seriously considered swaying for a 5th boy, and that was very much the way I thought of it in my head. The dream I had was over, my family would never be like I'd thought of it, and what difference did it make if I had 4 or 5 boys really? But then I decided to sway pink and got my daughter. So much of this is about a dream and not about any dissatisfaction with what we have.
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