One more chance to get pink!

[atomic sagebrush]

yep, doesn't matter. We've had people do all sorts of positions for girls and for boys and they don't seem to sway by much at all.

[DreamingofBoth]

So I’m expecting to get my opk positive tomorrow around 1ish when I typically test based on pervious months and how my tests are today. Is it okay to wait to dtd tomorrow night?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes it's fine to wait till the night after the pos OPK!

[DreamingofBoth]

Well out again this month..... I know it can take time, but at the same time I didn’t think it would take long to get pregnant. It definitely gets frustrating month after month. So I guess the next step would be to do every four days? Monday/Thursday type of deal (depending on when AF ends).

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes. After your period ends have unprotected sex every 72 hours (not to the specific hour but tha'ts how I want you to count the days). Keep going with this till you're sure you've ovulated even if it means going all the way thru till your next period begins.

How long are you laying down after intercourse?

Are you doing female O?

[DreamingofBoth]

Okay thanks.

I’m laying down for a good 10 mins.

No female O. I’m wondering if I should though. For my second I did a kind of every four days and I did not one time and then three days later. (It was a little closer than 72 hours) but i think I had already ovulated by that time.

[atomic sagebrush]

Ok. Be sure to spend at least part of that 10 minutes on your tummy not just your back and we may want to extend that over the course of time.

Yes let's go ahead and add in female O. It can help boost chances of conception and we have no evidence that it affects a sway in any way. We start off without female O just for the sake of the "old school" sway tactics but truly, there's no data that shows it sways at all. We've done tons of polls and threads on this issue and while there's a trend that couples with all boys are on average more sexual than those with all girls, there are plenty of pink mamas who have Big O all the time and some blue mamas who don't.

[DreamingofBoth]

Okay thank you. Ugh this is so frustrating! Lol. Thank you for your help.

[DreamingofBoth]

So I just got a faint positive. I’ve never got one like this after so many negatives. And so faint. Currently Cycle day 31. Peak opk on day 15.

[atomic sagebrush]

We have had a rash of false positives on pregnancy tests this last few months - they're very light, but positive, and then hang around several days but never get any darker. And some of the people getting them even had blood tests that were negative. So keeping fingers crossed but do be aware we've had several cases of false positives of late.