Back and considering ttc for a fifth

[Jconger]

I’m over here like i know this is a lie i have believe since before I conceived my first daughter. I keep feeling like God is saying if He wanted me to have a son HE would do it... not me. If I followed timing perfectly than i would think i somehow did it. Thank you! I need to pray these old ways of thinking. I did cut my vitamins and omegas like you said. My husband stopped playing soccer (bc of the pandemic). I stopped the shakes with that product in it and focused just on eating more... the scale moved so much around 4lbs though I just can’t believe it happened lol. This baby is obviously meant to be bc I read it’s like 10% chance of getting pregnant day 4 or so. Thank you for your encouragement. There is still a little of hope for me... for the fifth time lol.


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[Jconger]

Oh and we only released that once. There was plenty before and after but he held himself perhaps that could be an issue too hopefully one chance but going often helped. I remember you stressing at least twice.


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[atomic sagebrush]

You still have every chance of a boy. It can still happen, do not despair!

[atomic sagebrush]

You still have every chance of a boy. It can still happen, do not despair!

[Jconger]

Thank you so much atomic!! Do you know if there is a sept group going already? Oh and my last three will all be like 2 weeks apart in birthdays. This baby is due sept 20, my other surprise was born on her due date sept 28 and then Finley (the girl i tried swaying with but didnt follow perfectly) was oct 11!!


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[BunnyGirl19]

There’s a July/August/September group already. I just joined. I’m due either Sept. 17 or 19 depending on if my doctor decided to use LMP or ovulation day.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you so much atomic!! Do you know if there is a sept group going already? Oh and my last three will all be like 2 weeks apart in birthdays. This baby is due sept 20, my other surprise was born on her due date sept 28 and then Finley (the girl i tried swaying with but didnt follow perfectly) was oct 11!!


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OH we have that too, as we call it "the birthday season!" It doesn't mean the genders will be the same though, we have done polls on that before and tons of people have opposite genders born in the same month or two month period.

[Jconger]

OH we have that too, as we call it "the birthday season!" It doesn't mean the genders will be the same though, we have done polls on that before and tons of people have opposite genders born in the same month or two month period.

Oh funny!! So that’s a popular thing huh? I’m still shocked I’m pregnant. Because we weren’t trying and it was what I thought, far enough away from O, we only released that once inside. We bded that morning and I believe day prior or couple days plus the following days (he just held himself so I don’t *think* any release inside). Anyway, I’m feeling bummed it was only once. I know you stress frequency and not timing, but we didn’t have either...
The things that were different this time was more sex before the one release. We would usually go once every week or so due to his high stress with medical training. (That sort of lines up with the abstaining thing for girls). I do believe I put on some extra muscle even though the scale was moving up and down. I stopped my shakes and dropped my omegas/vitamins so they were the right proportion. I know you said it is very possible to still have a boy but I’m just so bummed I didn’t get to sway again. This is definitely our last and I feel like our chances for a boy are very low. Sorry. I just don’t want to be disappointed for the fifth time... I know God knows what I need so I’m praying He changes my heart. I need more faith and to trust Him more.
Percentage wise, how much do you feel frequency affects a sway?


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[atomic sagebrush]

It just seems to work out that way for some of us!

We have PLENTY of people who still get boys with one attempt (and with otherwise good pink sways.) I can't give you a straight percentage because people do so many things for swaying, I can't know for sure how much any one thing sways.

[Jconger]

It just seems to work out that way for some of us!

We have PLENTY of people who still get boys with one attempt (and with otherwise good pink sways.) I can't give you a straight percentage because people do so many things for swaying, I can't know for sure how much any one thing sways.

Thank you! It did sound like a couple of your boys were one attempt with a cut off... I’m just still in disbelief lol and you must be flabbergasted as you said earlier if I was to fall pregnant


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