swayers over 35 buddy group

**purple** · April 22nd, 2015, 11:34 PM

Well I have booked in an appointment with my dr to hopefully get referred to a specialist to look into what is going on with my cycle! It's 7 days of heavy spotting for me now. Last cycle was messed up too so I'm hoping they run some tests to check my hormones. I didn't really want to go the medical route but I might have to. All least there is a good chance I can get prescribed Clomid but it's going to take ages to get the appointments.

**Hitmebabyonemoretime** · April 23rd, 2015, 03:57 PM

I'm just coming in to hang out for a bit. I'm turning 39 in June, 4 boys, want to try one more time . I don't expect I have fertility issues but I have an appointment next week to try to get Clomid/femara; im can't mess around with time...

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**Hitmebabyonemoretime** · April 23rd, 2015, 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by purple

Well I have booked in an appointment with my dr to hopefully get referred to a specialist to look into what is going on with my cycle! It's 7 days of heavy spotting for me now. Last cycle was messed up too so I'm hoping they run some tests to check my hormones. I didn't really want to go the medical route but I might have to. All least there is a good chance I can get prescribed Clomid but it's going to take ages to get the appointments.

Any chance your Dr will skip the specialist and just hand over the scrip? That's whT im hoping for in my case.

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**purple** · April 24th, 2015, 05:03 AM

Originally Posted by Hitmebabyonemoretime

Any chance your Dr will skip the specialist and just hand over the scrip? That's whT im hoping for in my case.

Unlikely as Clomid is more restricted in Australia so they have to be specialists. There is a fertility clinic in the building next to my work so I'm thinking of ringing to find out what their waiting list is like. It would be very convenient to go there for appointments as the one I went to before is really out of the way now.

I had lots of bleeding today in the morning and was a bit crampy. It was almost like a period except then it mostly stopped for the afternoon. I feel better at least knowing I have an appointment and a plan now. I hope my Dr doesn't just tell me I need to wait for my cycles to regulate after the mirena removal.

**Hitmebabyonemoretime** · April 24th, 2015, 07:09 AM

Just tell him "ain't nobody got time for that" and hopefully he plays ball . It's the same in Canada btw; I know my GP will want to ship me off to a specialist but I'm going to stress the importance of the time I have left (snd real life deadline im under) and that I understand the risks and hope he just writes the damm script.

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**purple** · April 27th, 2015, 06:38 AM

I managed to get an appointment with the FS near work for in 2 weeks time. Just hope my GP will give me a referral and doesn't just think I'm being impatient!

**Hitmebabyonemoretime** · April 27th, 2015, 07:24 AM

Be in charge. My appt is Wednesday. I'm the biggest push over when it comes to medical help, but my plan is to tell him directly what I want I. A way that is self advocating.
I may not be successful but if I just walk in there and explain my problem he will definitely put me off in someone else's hands and I so do not have time for that. So far I am not ovulating one own, and I want one more child. I refuse this time to sit back and have someone control those measures when a simple rx may fix it.

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**blueeyedguys** · June 3rd, 2015, 05:40 AM

Dh seems to think we won't have any trouble conceiving because we never have before I can kind of see his point, my youngest is an oops baby from the first time we DTD after dh nearly died & was in hospital for 3 months. But I was 4 years younger than I am now.. Still over 35, but that 4 years makes a difference. I want to try this month, even though that would put my due date awfully close to where we want to avoid. He wants to wait another month because he thinks I'll get pregnant first try again.

It's possible he's right but it's also possible I'm already too old. I have no dr. right now and no way of knowing.

I just want to be pregnant or give up, move on & try to stop dreaming of a daughter.

**Hitmebabyonemoretime** · June 3rd, 2015, 11:15 AM

I cannot blame you one bit.

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**Funkyfry** · February 1st, 2016, 03:47 PM

Looks like no ne has posted here for a while! I am turning 36 soon and hoping to ttc a girl in June!! My little girl was a successful sway so hopefully it works again! Bit nervous being 36