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    Lost my pregnancy :(

    I'm ready to move onto another cycle but since this section isn't getting a lot of posts, I thought I would get the ball rolling.

    I was due Dec 3rd. I had a chemical pregnancy. This is a first for me. I am not sure how I am supposed to feel about it. I'm sad but not devastated like I feel I should be. I guess I just figure it wasn't healthy and my body did what it was meant to do. I hope this month works out a little better.
    Mommy to 5 beautiful children and 3 angels in heaven

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    Expecting AGAIN!! Due May 2016. Will it be or ??

    3/11 at 7 weeks
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    11/8/11 @ 18 weeks of pregnancy. Our angel

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    I am sorry, J. Thinking of you and hoping that April is the month for you.
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    Oh, so sorry Jojo. I think you have a perfect attitude about it. There is not much you can do but keep your spirits up and move forward. You are right, too, your body did what it is supposed to.
    (2002) (2005) from 1st marriage. TTC since Aug 2010- Dx: low sperm count and 1% normal sperm. We are giving up and moving on with a baby-free life.
    UPDATE: surprise bfp in Feb 2013! It's a BOY!

    NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!

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    I'm so very sorry. I had two chemicals so I know exactly. At least you can get straight onto next month, and hopefully the added hormones will support you that extra bit you need for a new pregnancy really soon. GL !
    2005, swayed for boy, arrived 25/11/2011

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    I am so sorry. Good luck to you this month!
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    I'm sorry too, JoJo. Hopefully this month will be the one! GL.

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    I've not had that personal experience but I know a little about feeling like you should be more depressed or crying more. Please don't ever feel that way. There is never a "right" way to feel, just coping and doing the best we can. I personally think it's God's grace.
    Last edited by iluvmyman; April 2nd, 2011 at 04:08 AM.
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    Praying and swaying for a precious baby boy but being blessed with a instead


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    Hugs.I have everything crossed for you next month.

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    Sorry to hear that. Take care.

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    thank you! I am really planning out a wonderful attempt for this month. Bring on the BFP! I'm excited to try again!
    Mommy to 5 beautiful children and 3 angels in heaven

    (13 years old)
    (11 years old)
    (8 years old)
    (6 years old)
    (22 months)

    Expecting AGAIN!! Due May 2016. Will it be or ??

    3/11 at 7 weeks
    6/11 at 7 weeks
    11/8/11 @ 18 weeks of pregnancy. Our angel

    Our family is complete

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