No heartbeat at 19 weeks

[odd]

Omg ...my heart goes out to you ...
M so sorry to hear that
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[onlythelonely]

Thank you for all your kind words.

[wantingonemore]

i am so sorry to read this

from the experience of a family member who went through this a few years ago (at 22 weeks) she was booked in to the maternity hospital and was induced.

sending lots of strength your way xx

[Rainbow baby]

I am so sorry hun, no words can express the pain you are going through I know it to well. I lost my son at 20 weeks. I think what happens next will be a complete blur for you my sweet. The baby has to come out and because you have had 3 c sections I am not sure how they will go about getting baby out. You may be given the choice to labor naturally considering it is not the same as a normal labour and the risks for complications of baby well they aren't there anymore, the pain medications you can take are increased. I know with my loss I begged for a d and c but they refused as they said it will do more harm than good and a longer recovery time and possible infertility. So I assume they will help you naturally as a c section is a great recovery time and months before you can ttc again naturally you are good to try again whenever your emotionally ready. In any event if you do go natural rest assured the pain that you will feel will be emotional and it isn't as physically painful at all. There is a risk with going natural a bleeding risk that you may indeed need a d and c anyway but for some reason they made me go through it with an induction small tablets placed at the cervix to get things moving. Like you I had some spotting before hand and they said it was a sign my body new it was time and the whole process was reduced to hours they said it can take days. The most important advice is take all the help and information you can from the hospital, pack a little bag with mementos you can keep from baby.. A teddy, blanket, little hat, camera and foot prints and hand prints are something you might like to do as well.... Be kind on yourself the next few months are going to be hard...spend quality time with your family and your partner these are the two things that got me through the hardest parts. Also if I had the chance again I would have spent longer with my little one. The hospital will help you make arrangements of whats to come after there is a lot but do not worry about this they will take care of it for you and help you and your partner decide what exactly you want. Take care honey and if you ever need someone to chat to pm me!

[mandie*wantsaboy*]

I am so so sorry. Absolutely heart breaking

[ever hopeful]

Totally devastating - I'm so so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers. xx

[zibibbogirl]

I am sorry for your loss. Words cannot describe the devastation you must be feeling. You are in the thoughts and prayers of all of us. We will be thinking of you as you say good bye to your precious child. I hope it is as quick as possible for you.

[Little Lunasa]

Very sorry to hear


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[luckyfourleafclover]

so so sorry for you. sending you strength and hugs

[Dreamofpink]

I am so very sorry & can only imagine the devastation you must be feeling. No-one should ever have to go through this

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