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    Purple, I'm so so sorry. These kinds of stories make me so angry and sad. I sending thoughts for peace to you right now.


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    so sorry xx

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    So so sorry purple. Lots of love, hugs and prayers to you. Thinking of you and your family.


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    My heart breaks for you I feel your pain hang in there it'll get better don't give up you can still get pregnant next time with no problems. Sending prayers your way 《♡》

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    So sorry!!!


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    Oh no, no, no, I'm so sorry to read this Purple.

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    I am so very sorry, purple! My heart aches for you, and I hope you do get some answers. I know with my two losses, the not knowing why was the hardest part. Hugs, and I hope your two beautiful boys give you lots of comfort and love right now. We'll miss you and be here if you decide to try again.
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    Thanks everyone for your kind words.

    Yesterday was a long day but the medication worked and I miscarried the baby without any issues. It went slower and there was a lot less blood loss than the last one. Towards the end I was pretty exhausted and wished I had just opted for a d&c but I'm happy I avoided surgery, I would have had to wait until Tuesday for that option anyway.

    I was told they don't do genetic testing until 3 consecutive miscarriages so was just sent off for standard testing. I'm not really sure what results we get from that testing. I probably should have asked more questions but it is hard to think of what to ask.

    We won't make any decision on what we want to do yet but really I don't think I can do it again. Right now my big worry is having to go back to work but that's not until Tuesday. I didn't cope well with the return last time but I am giving myself more time and it was a less traumatic experience at least. Hopefully this time I don't burst into tears when someone asks how I'm feeling or if I'm feeling better as they assume I was sick.

    Anyway, I'm going to try and focus on other things like getting stuff done around the house and maybe booking a nice holiday for later in the year. I have used up so much energy with the whole ttc journey it will be nice not to think about it.

    Thanks again for all the support

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    Take care and (((((big hugs)))))

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    I am very sorry for your loss and I hope you heal soon.

    I've had THREE miscarriages in a row now (4 mc total). The first one was @ 10 weeks & no testing. The next was too early at 7 weeks but insisted on having testing done for the last two.

    MC#3 : My dr had been telling me it was chromosomes, age, bad luck, blah blah...but testing showed the babies were NORMAL so then he had to look for other reasons (like the HUgE SCH he said wouldnt be a problem)

    Mc#4: The dr said it was due to low progesterone, bad hormones, etc. and said I would need to start supplements asap next time. I felt terribly guilty like it was all my fault!.....But the test showed a chromosome problem so no amount of medication would have helped.

    It gave me A LoT of peace of mind knowing the sex and health of the babies.

    I used the Anora test and collected the sample at home by placing a strainer over the toilet so I could collect the placenta. I put it in some saline in a clean container in the fridge and then my Dr sent it in with a blood sample. I had results in 5 days.
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