Anyone else team yellow?

[rainbowflower]

I'm 28 weeks, and whilst I know it's the right decision it's really really hard!

Anyone else in the same position?

[Rosie85]

Me! Well i call it team green but same thing. I am only 18 weeks and haven't had my scan yet but dh would kill me if we found out so it isnt happening. This is my first time not finding out and it feels good actually...like it is what I am supposed to do. I really have no desire to know right now.

[rainbowflower]

As much as I love the surprise at birth, I still really want to know lol. Just wish I could fastforward time a bit

[atomic sagebrush]

I am totally cyberstalking both of you!

[pinkin2011]

I found out with both of my boys. For my third i am definitely not finding out. It will be hard to do but i think its the best decision.

[Mars]

I am. I'm nearly 16 weeks and it's killing me! I found out with my 2nd and didn't with our first. I had GD with our 2nd so I decided to go team green this time to hopefully help any GD feelings. It hasn't helped that do far this pregnancy has been different to the others and everyone is adamant it's a girl.

[smarston3]

Mars-may I ask how you're handling other people's comments about not finding out, and what their opinion is on gender..I'm 6w5d now. Would love to go team green. But, on other hand, I don't want to announce the pregnancy without knowing gender.


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[rainbowflower]

Only one person is predicting this one to be a girl (one of my 3 sisters), maybe because I've insisted to everyone as soon as they ask if I know what we're having that I don't know but am sure it's another boy so they don't argue!

[Mars]

Smarston most people are surprised we aren't finding out. A lot think it's great to have a surprise. When people say to me oh bet you hope it's a girl etc I just say well it is what it is, can't change it. or I say maybe maybe not. You will find out in a few months when I do!
It is hard as I kind of get my hopes up a bit too so I'm trying not to think about the gender but I really can't help it. I feel like this is a girl but I felt that way last time and was so upset when we found out it was a boy.... Of course we wouldn't change him now though

[Rosie85]

Yup the worst part of this all is getting my hopes up. I am scared of being beyond upset at birth when i find out it is another boy even though that is what i am preparing for.