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    BFP but freaking out over attempts...help!!!

    Ahhh, Iím so so pleased that Iíve finally got my BFP after a horrible late loss last year.

    I feel I was great on the diet, cut out breakfast completely, high dose folic acid & omega 3-6-9 and fibre supplements, drastically cut down on meat for me and DH including lots of soya and DH also took OLE every day.
    I didnít get to work out loads but I have a full time busy job plus a toddler and house to look after, so fairly active! Plus my BMI is low so couldnít afford to lose and not ovulate.

    Despite all the good stuff, Iím getting very wound up on the stuff that might have completely ballsed up this sway Turns out that I had 2 possibly 3 attempts in the fertile window and fell asleep after so no j&d and there was definitely the big O

    My pregnancy voo-doo (which was correct in predicting gender with my last 2 early on, is making me tingle towards pink ) but Iím panicking for sure!

    Has anyone else had similar experiences TTC and still got their baby girl??
    Sorry for the epic waffle!!!

    Please help if you can pretty please xxx


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    Even with 3 attempts we still got girls, and 2 has really caught up to one in the results.

    I fell asleep after BD with my daughter and had the big O too.
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    BFP but freaking out over attempts...help!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Even with 3 attempts we still got girls, and 2 has really caught up to one in the results.

    I fell asleep after BD with my daughter and had the big O too.
    Really?!? Phew I keep panicking that itís all been in vain. What are the official stats with BD frequency in the fertile window?
    Iím going team green (which will be better for my sanity in the long run). Should I post my sway now or when little one arrives??
    Thaaaanks!!!


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    The stats are misleading because the people who have two attempts have generally been on diet a longer time and were less fertile than those who got pregnant with one attempt. Since lower fertility may = more girls conceived this may skew the results to make 2 attempts look better than it really is, so I don't like to consider them "canon" as they say but right now we're at 68% with one attempt (281 respondents) and 67% (with 104 respondents.) So not that much lower. We also have a category with one attempt plus J and D which is 77% with 120 respondents.
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    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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    Oh and post your sway whenever you feel comfortable!! Many people like to wait till the end of the first tri just in case, a few people wait till the birth, but it's fun to follow along with you guys in your sway threads as we all wait for baby!
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    LOOKING FOR YOUR SWAY PLAN? Have you checked the coaching forum? It will be posted in the same place your questionnaire is! https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/completed-questionnaires-and-private-coaching-access/

    LE Diet Ideas Threads: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54174-brand-sparkly-pink-new-diet-thread-girl-sways.html and here:https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/54926-le-diet-thread.html?highlight=le+diet+meal+ideas

    LE Diet PCOS idea thread here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-to-conceive-a-girl/47264-le-diet-pcos.html

    PLEASE STOP SENDING ME SWAYING QUESTIONS VIA PRIVATE MESSAGE. Post swaying questions in the forums ONLY.

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