Help for newbie pls x

Ive been reading a lot of posts on this & other websites and now im totally confused?!?!

bit about me and family first im 34 ds 38 Ive already got two lovely boys but really want to try and sway pink this time! started the diet loosely a couple of months ago skipping breakfast not snacking etc etc taking supplements mag/vit d/cal/vit d and even bought Replens last wk!

So im on cd11 and me being blonde thought dtd everyday meant dtd the everyday not making my ds do it himself!! so we have dtd 3 nights in a row and was going to make him so it all the way through to cd15/16 as I usually O cd14

Is this the wrong thing to do to sway pink??????

Have I messed it up for this cycle should we stop now and try something else nxt month??

Please could someone help with advise im stressing myself out over this already :sad:

First, the swaying methods on this site are different than on other sites. So YES, reading sway info on the different sites will be confusing and contradictory. Start reading some of the essays on this site, and you will see that everything kind of hangs together, it's not a mish-mash of a bunch of "tactics".

Now, not long ago, this site promoted something called frequent release (FR), but our statistics are now telling us that we are having great results with one attempt at +OPK.

Oh, and start here!
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...l-library.html

Thanks for the info I will get reading more later when the boys are in bed!

Hi and welcome!!

We base our swaying advice on different science than the other sites do and so our advice is different. There's an explanation behind every recommendation we give so when in doubt, just ask and we will explain.

You prob. know this already but I am not a big fan of the cal-mag stuff. I really really really advise against the Vit. D - I think that stuff sways blue in a big way and even if you decide to continue cal-mag, I strongly recommend dropping the D.

Some people do DTD every day for a girl but they usually start that right after AF (or even on CD 1) and continue thru O. You should have at least 7-10 releases before the earliest attempt that can possibly get you pregnant.

The fact is that if you O on CD 14 and you've DTD on CD 11, you're already in with a chance of conception this month even if you had stopped at that point. i know we are a few days out from that, not sure what you ended up doing there but no matter what, I wish you the best of luck and sending you a ton of pink dust.

don't think my reply posted so will post again just to be sure??!??

Thanks for your reply atomic I have looked at my calendar again and we dtd 7/9/10/11/12 my cbfm peaked at 13/14 but my sticks said I O on day 13 so im convinced ive swayed blue esp after wot u said about vit d etc as I have only just stopped all supplements!!! wot do u think??

I'm sorry, I really hate going over sways where it's already over and done with because I know it makes people secondguess everything.

There is ALWAYS a chance of a girl even with a perfect boy sway and you were doing a lot of other things to sway. Good luck and pink dust headed your way.

yes v true u r totally right! will have to see and keep praying pink pink pink!

Many thanks for your advice x