Questions for those who have 2 boys 1 girl or 3 boys...or along those lines;)
Hello,
I'm new and am waffling everyday on this decision. I am driving people around me crazy as well as myself! I need some opinions!! ( I have 2 awesome little boys)
Question for ladies who had 2 boys, went for the 3rd hoping for a girl, got a boy...if this happens,were you right back to the same place mentally as before the 3rd boy...meaning, did you get that gender desire back all over again? I know you wouldn't take back your decision at this point as you have a beautiful child, but if you could turn back time and have the easier (2 vs 3) would you?
I am wondering why I am having such a hard time with the decision of following through on going for a girl. Like, if I do it and its a boy, my pipe dream is over because I am NOT having 4. Convincing myself that I can go through a completely nauseating pregnancy again for 3 is bad enough!! I am going to write myself some nasty letters to remind myself never to do this again I am sure!!
I would have been the same if the genders were reversed as I always wanted a boy...just didn't realize how much I wanted a girl til I didn't get one! I guess I just think, if I never get pregnant than I never have to close that door that I didn't have a girl...cause I could always try later, does that make sense?!?! The door will just REALLY be closed at 3 and i am afraid of how sad I will be to not get to experience it:(
Hope this makes sense, hoping I can have 3 consistent days of the same decision soon LOL!!!
Thanks for any input:)
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