Is your DH a "Mary" or "Martha"?
I know what we do sways more than what DH does, but I was just curious about this:)
My DH is very much a Martha! He is very competitive and is a big time planner. If things don't go his way he gets a little crazy because it is out of his control. I also want to add he is a really nice person and would do anything for anyone that way you don't think he is to awful of a person;)
When I first found Gender Dreaming I of course read everything over, if not twice! I was freaking out at first thinking we have 3 boys because he is so Martha. Then it hit me. Whenever he gets all crazy about something out of his control I get crazy wishing he would just let it go! I was being more Martha trying to control his feelings instead of worrying about my own. He has been this way forever! There is no way I am going to change him. I think I have said to him a million times since we have been married,"you are going to give yourself a heart attack!"
So since then I have worked on not spazzing out when he does. I try to just let it be. Most the time when I say anything to him it just sets him off more anyways.
I was thinking about this today and wondering what other families were like. Are some Moms more Mary or Martha because of the Dad. In my situation I feel I am more Martha because my husband is, but other times I feel more Mary because he is more Martha. Wow, that got a little confusing!!