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Hi...when I search the web including this site, it seems that the majority of women are disappointed in having boys. I feel like I am the only one disappointed in having girls. I guess I can't relate to many women. I feel so alone. Are there any women out there who never wanted to have a daughter and that is all they get? I have one daughter and another on the way and I've been upset ever since I found out the sex. I feel awful but I can't shake it. Anyone feel this way about girls?
There are many people who have daughters that wanted sons and I personally can say 100% that I would have been one of them (had strong gender pref. with my first son) but I was just blessed with my DG that time.
I'm dissapointed in having girls. My 3rd girl is on the way and I'm devastated, lost, crushed, confused, you name it.
I'm about to have family make up from my nightmares -3 girls. My ideal family always was 3 boys.
I always wanted all boys as well. I wouldn't have minded 1 daughter but I really want more sons. I could understand how you feel. This is my 2nd and I am crushed. It seems so easy for everyone else to conceive boys...don't know why not for us. Are you getting nasty comments from people about having 3 girls? That's what makes it so much worse! We haven't told anyone yet that we are having another girl because I don't want to hear it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac
I would love all your pink dust if it's going spare?
i had 7 girls and trust me i can't tell you how badly i screamed and cried and felt like a failure with number 5. however she passed away so now i know each baby is a blessing no matter what the gender.
I only wanted boys. I have 2 DD's. There isn't a day that goes by where I look at my biological clock and contemplate whether or not to try again for a boy. I'm not there yet. Unless you I go HT. Which involves money. So that's where I'm at. To compound this fun irony, I am not exaggerating when I have almost no friends that have daughters. Boys. God I could fill a school bus. It's unbelievably mean way of life mocking me.
I wanted only girls, but MANY people where I live prefer boys - in fact, I was the only person in my family (aside from my mother and sister) who wanted girls.
I always wanted girls ...and now I have none. I never imagined only raising boys :(
So sorry for your loss. Situations like that puts things into perspective.Quote:
Originally Posted by girlmom