How important is timing?

So, I've been looking but can't find it. I seem to remember reading on here somewhere that timing is really not important at all. But I'm going through trying to find that and seeing everything about timing! So, how important is timing? I have no idea when or if I have ovulated yet this cycle. For some reason, I think I did, but WAY early (like cd 9). I'm hoping I didn't yet. But wondered. DH was abstaining for quite a while....probably around 10-12 days and then we BD on cd9. I haven't noticed much cm if any since cd9 and now I'm freaking a little because I have this timing thing drilled into me that bd on o day=boy. I know it doesn't always =boy, but you know how you read something again and again and it just because complete truth to you! Well, that's me about bd on o day. Anyway, just wondered about timing! Sorry about all the TMI!

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...pink-blue.html

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...frequency.html

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...le-timing.html

Thanks!

Thank you Cinss!! :) You rock!!

you also may want to read this one:

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