Hello ladies! I am a mother to two boys (1 & 3). I never knew about swaying until recently...I stumbled upon ingender and someone from there recommended this site! Ingender was useful but seemed waaay to strict and stressed me out a bit reading all the info. This site seems a lot more helpful! I'm so anxious to get pregnant and so anxious to have a daughter that I really need some good advice so I know I will find it here!! See you all around!