Hi fellow Swayers from Perswayme :)

HI ladies, I have been lurking for a awhile reading. Feeling my way around and trying to understand the whole swaying process.

DH and I have been TTC and swaying since May this year, to no avail. It's getting quite disheartening because I conceived DD at the drop of a hat first cycle off BCP. I love my wonderful DD a lot but really really want a boy, you know what I mean?

But it seems harder to conceive this time round. Maybe because I'm 31 or maybe because I'm still nursing DD who is almost 2 yes old. I didn't get my first pp period till she was 22 months old and that was only slight spotting.

I started EPO and dongguai in the last two months which seems to bring on my spotting. Also taking prenatals, extra 5 mg folic acid, mucinex during o time, charting, sway blue diet and preseed. Its not easy as I'm a cheese monster. E deprivation and BFN are kinda getting to me. :(

I should probably add that in this first cycle with 'period', I'm on CD 34 and DPO 16 according to FF. My chart turned triphasic 8 days ago, stayed above 98 fahrenheit. But I tested BFN on DPO 12 and 15. :( yes, there is the occasional nausea, cramping, flatulence but nothing more than previous cycles.

Am thinking of starting fertilaid and soy isoflavones soon. What do you think ladies?