Frequency for BD for swayers over 35

Hi Ladies, I would like to know how ladies over 35 are approaching frequency. I know it says to do FR or abstinence for 7-10 days. Now being over 35 abstinence is not recommended but what if FR is do much to handle. How many days abstinence is safe? But then does that sway blue?

2-5 days abstain between BD tends to sway blue. But really frequency just doesn't sway by much and if FR is not something your husband can do, just let it go, it's fine. My husband (42) had 4 days between rounds of BD which is perfect for blue, but we still got a girl.

There are also some other options such as compressed FR or hurry-up FR and you can read about those here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...pink-blue.html

Thanks Atomic, I think I will just have to go with the flow and hope the diet is enough.