what to do?? what to do??

Back info: I got a BFP on test in Aug and ended up needing a d&c sept 14th for a missed m/c at 8wks. I had genetic testing done and discovered it was a girl. SO heartbreaking, I would have been just as sad had I m/c another boy.

My doctor advised to wait one cycle, he said just to ensure the lining would be good and thick. He said he's had clients get pregnant on a d&c cycle and go on to have a normal pregnancy. Dh and I bd early this morning 1am. Well, just a bit ago I just got my first blarring positive OPK post d&c. That line poped before the control line.

I've been doing the LE diet (the best that I can, like earlier today I had some mini peanut butter cups) But I did manage to lose a 2 pounds, still drinking my CL, I've had horrible allergies (zyrtec), we bd last night in the shower. Everything I'm doing is pointing in the girl direction. My CM pattern is matching to the one cycle when I got my girl. watery cm the day before +opk day of post opk creamy I even just now put in my rephresh.

Everything is lining up, except for my doctors advice...lol oh what to do?? what to do??

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Originally Posted by bigchrista

Back info: I got a BFP on test in Aug and ended up needing a d&c sept 14th for a missed m/c at 8wks. I had genetic testing done and discovered it was a girl. SO heartbreaking, I would have been just as sad had I m/c another boy.

My doctor advised to wait one cycle, he said just to ensure the lining would be good and thick. He said he's had clients get pregnant on a d&c cycle and go on to have a normal pregnancy. Dh and I bd early this morning 1am. Well, just a bit ago I just got my first blarring positive OPK post d&c. That line poped before the control line.

I've been doing the LE diet (the best that I can, like earlier today I had some mini peanut butter cups) But I did manage to lose a 2 pounds, still drinking my CL, I've had horrible allergies (zyrtec), we bd last night in the shower. Everything I'm doing is pointing in the girl direction. My CM pattern is matching to the one cycle when I got my girl. watery cm the day before +opk day of post opk creamy I even just now put in my rephresh.

Everything is lining up, except for my doctors advice...lol oh what to do?? what to do??

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So sorry about your loss!

I guess it depends on how you look at things. I feel like I would probably be swept away in the desire to get pregnant again and go for it but you want to make sure that if you get your bfp, you don't end up super stressed the whole time thinking about what your doctor said and fearing another loss. On the other hand- I have heard of a lot of successful pregnancies right on the heel of a loss.

Good luck in your decision!

Thanks for the reply, I'm thinking of going for it. lol

Sorry for you loss, sounds like you have made up your mind to go for it, goodluck.

Go for it, straight after sways pink, GL XXX

Thanks so much ladies.!!

Good luck!!

Thanks ladies but dh pulled out. Boo!

I would totally go for it and it's not too late if you want to BD this morning or even tomorrow night you'd be in with a chance.

we did it again yesterday afternoon and he "bailed" on me again:nyd:! So I asked him what was up and said he was just following doctors orders..lol I had a neg OPK today but gonna try anyway tonight, I told him that egg was long gone ;)
edited to add: if AF shows this month, which I am fully expecting it gives me another month of girl sway diet under by belt.