Swaying doesn't seem so important anymore!!!

In light of what has just happened in the school shooting in Connecticut, I find myself not feeling so concerned about swaying anymore! I of course would love my baby girl that I have always dreamed of, but this tragedy has shined a new light on what is truly important to me........my babies! I think I'm done stressing and swaying and will just ttc whatever gender The Lord wants to send me, I will love and cherish a new baby no matter the gender.....this tragedy has really hit me hard as I learned about it just minutes after I sent my little kindergartener on the bus! My heart is heavy and I pray for the families and those deeply affected by this tragedy!!,

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I completely understand I have always felt God will sent me the baby I'm ment to have no matter what I do!

I'm just so torn up about this devastating news it really has put things into prospective for me! All babies and little ones are gifts from god and are little angles, I'll be lucky enough to have another angel from him....boy or girl!

I agree, after days and tragedies like these, those things don't matter anymore. I just want all my children to be loved, healthy happy and safe. I am beyond sick over this shooting...terrifies me to even send my child to school. This world is taking a scary turn for the worse.

I'm right there with you. I was already on the fence about how much I really wanted to sway - this has made me realize even more so what is important in life. It's so cliche to say that you just want a healthy baby - but I truly JUST want safe and healthy kids. The gender is so unimportant in the grand scheme of life. I'm definitely still on the diet, and my attempt is this week but I know in my heart I will be equally as happy with a boy and know that he'll be perfectly blessed for our family.

My thoughts are constantly with all those suffering this past weekend and in the coming weeks/months. SUCH an horrible tragedy!

Thanks for starting this thread to again remind me :)

WOW Im so glad you shared this I have had the same running through my mind, ever since hearing about those poor innocent children, my heart feels so heavy Im laying awake at night thinking of what their families must be going through.. we are so Blessed for what we have and what we will be given.. it really has shed light on my situation too.. I believe its time I slowly step away from my gender obsession though Healthy baby is my number 1, but to welcome the baby whole heartedly,thankfully and to be sincerly grateful for what The Lord above has decreed for me ..

Thank you for sharing this and reminding us all!! x