Is it wrong? Is it selfish?

It is wrong of me to want another little girl? I know how blessed I am to have Claire, I get to raise a daughter when so many women don't. God is good and I am truly blessed.
However, this pregnancy wasn't planned. Now that it's here, I'm fantasizing of a sister for my daughter. I don't want a girl for me this time, but for her. There is not as much pressure, and I know I'll be just as happy with a boy, as I LOVE my boys. I guess I'm embarrassed that this desire is even here.

I have 3 boys and a girl too. I am pregnant with another boy...but swayed to give my daughter a sister. I too have the same desire. We are done having babies, so my little girl will never get what I tried to give her. But she does have 4 incredible brothers. Good luck and hope you hear pink.

I totally understand your desire, but I personally wouldn't dare to even try! I would just assume another boy, but that's just me.