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I am not going to sway anymore. I am just going to go with the flow, see what happens. Maybe that's why a BFP hasn't happened for me yet.
Today is my sister's birthday. She is the first girl after 4 boys for my mom and dad. My mom posted on FB today that she was so shocked when she was born because she just assumed she would never have a girl. She went on to have two more. :awe:
I wish you luck with TTC. Swaying or not, it's always possible.
How long have you been trying for now? I can relate after 8 BFNs i took a break where i stopped charting and monitoring everything, i did stick with the diet, not really on purpose but because that was what i had become used to. It was only 2 months after i decided to take a break that i got my BFP and we were lucky enough to get our DG :) I hope the same happens for you!
It's been 5 cycles, but I only have 4 more til my 40th birthday. When DH agreed to TTC #4, his stipulation was until I turn 40. I pretty much stopped this past cycle with the holidays and such, and was planning on starting the diet and all again. I've been teetering back and forth if I want to or not, and know that if I didn't get my BFP and was doing the diet, I'd always wonder if that was why. If I'm not swaying and I don't get my BFP, I'd know it just wasn't in the cards for us anymore.
I am 40 in September, I am back on the diet after been 'bold' around the holidays. I am gonna try in feb and march and if no BFP, we have decided to call it a day!! We are now trying 12 months, we had a MC in there too, if I had of went to term I would be due the end of this month. I really thought I would of got pregnant before that due date, but it was not to be...Quote:
Originally Posted by My Three Sons
I can't go on with this, I am letting go of the dream as I am getting older and I am drained at this stage!! GL to you!!!!
im at the same place, im pretty much done swaying, am sticking with diet pretty good though. im throwing timing out the window, and no lubes
I totally understand...I got DD the very last cycle I was going to try. Wishing you the very best!!!
Thanks AS. I totally appreciate all the work you put into this site, and I'm sure that things would be different for me if I had the luxury of time, but I don't. I'd rather get pregnant and find out it's a boy and wonder "what if I swayed", then not get pregnant at all and wonder "what if I hadn't swayed".
There's still a 50/50 (almost) chance for me anyway. :)
I still plan on hangin around here, just for the TTC chat and such, plus it's such a great site and wonderful group of ladies, I can't imagine leaving now.
my thinking was I would rather walk away with a baby to love than none!! good luck