Trying to Decide -- Family balancing in Indiana?

We will welcoming DS3 this year and already I know I need to a have DD in my life. That said, I know 4 is our limit, both financially and mentally. I'll be 36 when this little guy is born and both DH and I don't want to be having kids into our 40s.

I swayed LE style with DS3 and failed. There are a few things I would change next time but overall I wonder if changing 3-4 things is enough to really get a girl this time around. I would love the guarantee that HT gives, but I also know since I am a SAHM that HT would be a one shot deal.

I will have 37 and a half by the time we start trying for our last. Do you think HT can be successful with 1 try at this late of an age? I'm struggling with the cost factor of something that may not even work. :( I wish I could see into the future and know if we would be successful both with 1 attempt at HT or with another sway.

I live near indianapolis. How do I go about finding a clinic that does family balancing? I've been trying to just search via the internet and have been striking out. Any tips?

Hi there. Sorry for the non-response.

Indiana hasn't been a hot spot for us but if you check Society for Assisted Reproductive Technologies and look for clinics in your state, you can check each to see if the do PGD. If they do, they can offer it for GS. They may not advertise it on their websites so you have to call and ask if the offer family balancing. HTH

Thank you!

You can call around to local ivf clinics and ask if they offer family balancing. Thats what I did but ending up going with a dr that someone else had used on another board.

We all provide assistance locating a DR that is close to you. The link is in the right sidebar!