my dh is gaining weight and eating really bad lately. but his sex drive had been higher and he's wanting to have sex allll the time. he has been using soap with lots of lavender oil but i guess it's not helping? and his diet has been very high in salt when im not feeding him. he also started smoking after quitting but he's about to start pills called chantix that are supposed to lower ph i think? do you think he's going to kill the sway?