Hi ladies. I'm 19.3 weeks pregnant with baby #3 and definitely.our last.... We decided to do a 4d ultrasound so our girls and family can be there (i just know I'm going to hear girl again) and am so anxious how everyone will act. I mean I know my family will all be supportive and after this awful pregnancy, who cares as long as were both healthy. But i know what friends, and family are going to be thinking,and I don't want pity.