2 or 3 kids? Anyone having regrets after having #3? or opposite?
Hi,
I have always wanted 3 kids! Now I have two healthy boys, age 3 and 5, and I am so grateful. I wanted my firstborn to be a boy and I wanted a brother for him, thanking God every day for making my dreams come true.
I have only started noticing girls now, and of course want my 3rd to be a baby girl. My husband only want two kids. We both work and having two small children has been tiring. I am in the process of trying to convince him to have #3, but in that process having doubts whether it is going to be too hard with jobs and everything!
So:
Should have another bcz...:
- I will have my desired DD!
- I will have no regrets of not having 3.
- My sons will have another sibling.
- If one or both decide to study abroad, my house wont be empty when they leave.
- I want to experience pregnancy and baby just one more time.
Should have only two bcz...:
- Less time per kid!
- i will be cranky worn out, and not fun to have around.
- It is costly! All the vacations we want to have, how will it be possible with 3???
- Placing three kids in a car :(believe me I think a lot abt that. It is hard enough to fasten seatbelts on two of them.
- More time for us, less hectic life
Please do comment and share your expreiences!