I just went through my first IVF cycle in hopes of having a girl. We have 2 healthy sons with no fertility issues. I am 38. I had 13 eggs retrieved, 9 were mature, 7 fertilized. 5 made to blastocyst and of those 5 only 1 normal male, 3 abnormal females and 1 abnormal male. We did ICSI and a comprehensive chromosomal screening on day 5. The ? is-- is it possible that my dh and I just can't create a normal female?