DH can't BD at +Tive OPK... So upset

Well DH has been taking care of himself for the past 7 days... I thought last night I got a positive opk so we dtd at 9:30pm, but when I tested this afternoon at around 12pm, today's was definately positive... Asked DH to release and then we could dtd one more time and he was physically exhausted! He couldn't do it :( I'm so upset that all our hard work this month probably wasted...

Last month we tried abstain and 3 day cut off and didnt work and month before dtd on positive opk and didn't work... I'm really in doubt this will work :(

Thanks for listening to my sad vent :(

You totally still have a chance! Just try not to stress, it's possible I promise you.

you are still in with avery good chance , he might of even done you a favor ! by the time you actually ovulate in theory most y sperm should have died off .
Don't worry about it hun it got dd one bed at first pos opk ! ( i get at least 2days of them )
have all my pink dust in exchange for your blue x:fx:

You DTD about 12 hours before a positive OPK. That's brilliant. You stand a very good chance of getting PG and doing it once makes a pink bean more likely.

If it makes you feel any better my DH has been abroad for 2 of our cycles and missed O altogether. This was our big chance as he is likely to miss next O and guess what I did? I totally misjudged the signs and we DTD 3.5 days before O!!!! Doh!

Thanks ladies... Been searching high and low for girls conceived two days before... Here's to the 2WW :sigh: although I'm
Not very optimistic :tissue:

I think I already answered this somewhere along the way, but that's fine to have one attempt 2 days before O, that's still a good chance of pg unlike 3 day cutoff. Plus, you count from your FIRST positive OPK even if you get more/darker ones later on. So your attempt was prob. perfect timing and even if it wasn't you're still in with a good chance.

Oh yes, I have been down this path with DH before. Once they feel pressure, it is ALL OVER unless you have some sort of saint you are married to that will rise to the occasion instead of retiring to the office to read sports scores on the computer....lol

Fwiw, we started off good, dtd Fri, Sat, and Sunday got my +opk on Monday and guess who couldn't perform? GUESS!!! YEP!!! Mr. Sports Score. :rolleyes:

To make it worse, I had used some acijel so thought there was no way I could get pg because it prob killed all the sperm so a cutoff would be useless. But I did! I was shocked!! It CAN happen :giggle:

Yup, we weren't going to try this month, we DTD CD 11, then the next day I noticed I was heading into fertile territory. By CD13, my OPKs were getting darker so fast I knew it was going to be a cut off, so JUST IN CASE I shot up a whole applicator of acijel to be on the safe side. I ovulated CD15---so that's a 4 day cut off---and got a BFP 4 days ago:) I couldn't be happier.


P.S I do not suggest anyone try for a 4-day cut of. My husband obviously had super sperm.

Thanks Ladies! Maybe his inability to perform will end up being a blessing in disguise :)

Still waiting for my temp rise tho? My temps are still level with Pre O? Does this mean I haven't ovulated? All my cramps and signs said I DEFINATELY did but temps aren't giving no indication...

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We have done an accidental 3 days before O! Going to be a lo g week until testing!