2nd time swayers question.......

So crazy thinking going on here i know i am crazy LOL!

We swayed pink and concevied twins one died at 15 wks it's been a really rough preggie but I'm begining to want to try again after this one's born to give her a sister - am i mad! probably!

just wodnering about sucess of second sways when you were sucessful first time around and when you started swaying. I would like a small age gap eg 13-18months so wondering if i should start swaying before this ones born as i want to sway pink not sure thats the bext plan......

does anyone hae experiences to share?

Sorry Fish I don't have any advice as I'm only 9 weeks with sway baby #1 (baby#3 otherwise). However in my mind I'd love one more and have thought about swaying again. It was very hard to get dh to agree to this one so I'm not sure if he'll ever agree to 4! I've tentatively considered going on le once baby weans around 6 months old. Everyone has said that it's had a fab effect on my weight & I know what to do once baby's born! We'll see, especially as I don't usually get ppaf until 8 months after birth. Interested to hear others experience too!

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I really felt haunted my my lost twin too Fish and I was nowhere near as far along as you, I think your feelings make total sense and are completely understandable. it was very hard on my son's birthday particularly, even tho I knew logically that if my twin had remained that wouldn't have even been their birthday. I must admit I did feel better this last year, I don't know that I believe that the soul has come back to me or what, but I do feel like our family is complete at 5 children the way I had always wanted.

But you shoudl NOT start swaying now, there will be plenty of time for that later on. right now you must concentrate on a healthy pregnancy!!!!

i really thought i'd be done like you it took us a while to conceive this one but having thought she may have a sister i guess i'm a bit extra confused!

but knowing my luck i'd have another lovely boy and just make her even more out numbered ;-0

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

I really felt haunted my my lost twin too Fish and I was nowhere near as far along as you, I think your feelings make total sense and are completely understandable. it was very hard on my son's birthday particularly, even tho I knew logically that if my twin had remained that wouldn't have even been their birthday. I must admit I did feel better this last year, I don't know that I believe that the soul has come back to me or what, but I do feel like our family is complete at 5 children the way I had always wanted.

But you shoudl NOT start swaying now, there will be plenty of time for that later on. right now you must concentrate on a healthy pregnancy!!!!

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thank you in nicest possiable way its good to hear it's not just me i wondered if i was dwelling on it too much, i do sort of dread the birth as it will be the final end of our lill one and the stupid part of my brain won't really beleive the dream is over until that day ;-(

was wondering about going veggie from 3rd trimester think this lill lady needs all the help she can get at mo ;-0

I do too, and there's no need for it, you will have plenty of time to make up for it later on.

I'm jumping the gun a bit here as I only have a promising nub shot to go from for baby 2, but I have voted blue sway success followed by blue sway success!! You never know could be a hat trick this time next year lol!!!

How soon are you planning on trying again after the baby comes fish?

Ah elp I hope so fx for you!

Wag if I have a forth I'd want max 18 month gap so gives me 9 months birth to conception inc swaying :nails:

Elp how long did you sway second time before conceiving? Mix of pregnancy/ bf and sway not quite such a worry with blue thou I guess ....