If women want a desired gender baby, why cant we support each other?

The "devil" in me and so many other women ive known of say that they desire a baby girl more than a boy, of course which women cannot resist shopping for pink? No matter whether its their first born or not. But why cant support each other....many women that i know also will feel jealous if i end up having a girl but will scream out for evil joy of i have the otherwise :(

My unmarried sister blurted out: when i have a girl i will name her xx, but when you have another boy (i have a ds already) you can name him "zz" .....

I was thinking: how can you be so confident with what you're saying?!

Having a baby is a precious thing, but sometimes i just want what i need and desired.

I think most would be afraid to admit to anyone that even though they have a healthy child/children that they long for the opposite gender as well.

I know I don't like that I was so open to anyone about my desire to have a girl at some stage of my life, I am an honest and open person, but I know how people can react and make you feel bad about being honest. That's why I love this site, I don't have to pretend anything :)