Thank you everyone for the kind words!
It has been two days since we have heard boy.. and although I had initially taken it pretty badly, I have to say I am holding up well.. Right after I found out I called my mom, someone who has actually been in my shoes with GD after she's had three girls and couldn't conceive a boy, which resulted in my parents divorce. She also said to me that if she had a boy, and she did have her DG I wouldn't be here, and since we are really close it made me realize that it isn't about the gender, just the bond is enough for me to have with my boys. We also talked about me going HT with IVF in a few years and she was very supportive which made me feel better, I am also very blessed and happy my husband had been the one to say we will go HT right after we did hear boy so it did give me hope. So for now, I am just going to keep myself as busy as possible these next couple months! We are moving out of state, rehabbing our new home, I have both boys birthdays coming up and also my anniversary, not to mention we will be a few miles away from Disney world so we will probably be there every weekend! To be honest I just really cannot wait to DS3(Graham) to get here, I love him already and just seeing him moving around in our scan made me realize he's just another puzzle piece to complete our family! I hope all of you ladies get your DG and your sways work, I will be checking back from time to time so best of luck to everyone!