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I am just really pissed at myself for messing up my sway to the point where it's not in my favor to TTC this month. I feel like August 26th is so far away and I am just annoyed with myself and bummed. I have no one to blame but myself for screwing it all up but I can't stop thinking about it. Anyone else going through something similar or went through something similar?
Do not rush it. Listen to your instinct. I truly felt I had messed by my sway and wad feeling very confident but still dtd and now I'm pregnant with DD #3.
Swaying is not 100%, swaying just increases the chances of having your desired gender. With that being said if you believe you have messed it up then you should wait until you feel your sway is good enough to attempt to ttc. No one said you would get pg on your first cycle either. I am on cycle 6 and getting impatient..lol. Overall, what is meant to be, will happen eventually. Good luck.
Swaying can be stressful but in the end you want to feel like you did everything that you could to increase your chances to get your desired gender. If you feel like you haven't done all you could do this month then personally I would wait until August. It isn't that far away. When I was swaying I knew in the end that I did everything I could aside from HT to get my son and if I got another DD I could never say what if I did this or what if I did that, I gave it my all and at the end of the day that is all I could do.
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Originally Posted by Alyssasmom789
Yea that is why I am going to wait. I am not feeling very confident. That's why I am so annoyed with myself because I want to do it this month but I know I shouldn't.
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Originally Posted by missmegrn
That is another thing that is making me nervous! With DD I got pregnant one day out of the month without trying. Now I have this idea in the back of my mind that this time is going to be hard and I am getting more bummed about waiting longer.
Thanks dloui that's what I keep trying to tell myself. That August will be here before I know it. And I know if I got pregnant in July and it ended up being another DD I would be really upset with myself and wished I would have waited another month and knew that I had tried everything I could to get a DS.Quote:
Originally Posted by dloui128
I agree with what everyone says BUT if a person has really packed on the pounds, you need to TTC regardless of your level of confidence. gaining a small amount of weight is ok, gaining a huge amount of weight is bad for you and may even sway pink for some people. So for blue swayers, it's not always a case of "wait for the perfect month" because there IS no perfect month, something always goes wrong.
TTC a Prince really had quite a bit going against her and so that is why I said wait. 9 times out of 10, with blue swayers, I will NEVER say wait because something is a little bit less than ideal. It's a totally different circumstance than what most swayers are worrying about.
I am not swaying but have IUI scheduled for Aug and will be Oing around Aug 26th !!! We can be cycle buddies! Dont give up!
Yes Atomic only told me that she thinks I should wait because I wasn't even close to consuming a healthy amount of calories. I was getting 1,200 on a good day! I was skipping breakfast and only eating one meal a day and working out a bit too much. Now I will have a good 7 1/2 weeks under my belt with my August sway with a pretty solid HE diet & supps.