Help needed with timing and abstinence question please

Hi everyone,

This is my second chance to sway for a girl for my last baby. My previous sway resulted in my second little boy.

I was using a saliva microscope for my failed sway to track ovulation as I could never get a positive OPK. I usually had about 4 days of ferning before I ovulated. I am using Clearblue digital OPK's this time but cross referencing with my saliva monitor.

The last 2 days I have had partial ferning on my saliva scope, which means I'm leading up to ovulation but in the past I had 2 days of strong ferning which would indicate I was ovulating. This afternoon I got my smiley face on digital opk. Now I am stressing because we have only had 5 days of abstinence. I haven't used digital opk's before so I can't comment on when I would ovulate after a positive OPK. Which do you think is more important - to bd tonight so have a 1 - 2 day cut off with only 5 day abstinence or wait another 2 days to give us the 7 day abstinence but possibly hitting O day or just after?

Thank you!

Hi there! Welcome to the forum! This article is a good article written by Atomic Sagebrush (who wrote the book so to speak on GenderDreaming style swaying) that proves that timing is not a reliable sway tactic and why. Here's the link: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...le-timing.html

Good luck with your sway!