Stay away from pre-seed?

I know PS sways blue but I'm still up in the air about if I want to use it or not. I'm a couple of days away from ovulation and really want to get pg right away. I've been pg twice and both times I conceived with PS. There were only a couple of months we ttc without it so its not as if we ttc'd a long time but still I'm certain PS helped me conceive. The first time I got pg I m/c. The second time I got pg with my DD and that was a couple of cycles after the m/c. A thought I had is that my nutrients may have been low from losing a lot of blood after the m/c so that may have swayed pink despite the PS?

I want to have a girl, I would definitely be disappointed if it was a boy. I can see myself being less excited about the pregnancy but I don't have that desperation to have a girl like I did before I had DD because I did get my dream gender. It feels like more of a want, instead of a strong, strong desire or almost need. I know a lot of you understand what I mean when I talk about that strong desire.

Basically, this will be our second and last child no matter the gender. I want a sibling for DD but would love, love for her to have a sister and on a selfish note I'd love to experience having a baby girl all over again and get some use out of all these cute girl clothes DD hardly wore.

In my situation, wwyd?

I can totally understand this. Honestly, if it were me in your situation, I wouldn't use Pre-Seed. True, you may end up pregnant very quickly, but when if you reach scan and are told it is a boy, will you be able to handle it? If it were me I'd likely spend a very long time with 'what ifs' - if I hadn't used Pre-Seed would have got my DD? Personally, as hard as it is, I'd rather wait for an extra 28 days (or however long your cycle is), stick with the diet and supps and try again at positive OPK. At least you would have tried and done all you could possibly do.

Whichever you decide, I hope it works for you and you get your pink bundle. :hug2:

People haven't definitely gotten girls using Pre-seed. But, it does sway blue by making your environment sperm-friendly and allowing many more spermies to get to the egg (more sperm = more boys) Have you been TTC for many months? Have you been doing the diet and exercising? These are more effective in declining your maternal condition. IMO, I would give it a few months without the pre-seed, and if you aren't successful (and you just want to be pg) then go for it.

Just because something sways blue, doesn't mean you can't still get a girl with it. We have had great results for blue with the Preseed and I personally do not recommend it for pink until someone has gone a good 6 months without getting pg (and in most cases more like 9!)

I would not use the Preseed, no way, no how.

I am having my first son on first attempt using preseed after 3 girls I had never used it before

I have two boys. Used PS both times.

I didnt know this and I used PS and had a boy. What lube is good to use for a girl?

Sylk is what Atomic recommends. It's what we used this time, of course I don't know gender yet! You'll have to order it online, though.

Ok I will look for it. How did your appt go today?

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Sylk is what Atomic recommends. It's what we used this time, of course I don't know gender yet! You'll have to order it online, though.

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Does Sylk also help you conceive like pre-seed does?