One last bit of help, hopefully

I just had my trigger shot. saturday at 10:30. The last bd was Thursday night around 8. I was planning on bd once at trigger, but found at that my husband released last night at midnight. This would be good for girl, but horrible for conception, and i just want to get pg at this point witht he most chance of girl possibly but don't want more months of swaying, expense, and fertility treatments. What should I do at this point? I was going to bd this afternoon but 12 hours might leave him shooting blanks. Should I try tonight (24 hours after realease) or tomorrow morning (36 hours after release). I don't have ewcm but I am watery (clomid). What are my best odds of both conception and girl at this point? Thanks for your help and hopefully it will work, so I don't need to take any more of your time:) I REALLY appreciate all the help. This has been a long , arduous process.