Messed up timing for this month need advice!

So dh abstained for seven days. I was testing opk after opk but nothing. I usually ovulate day 11 or we and so when day 13 came and not even anything on the opk we just dtd thinking either I wasn't goin to o or we missed oh surge. Well today day 14 I have a positive opk. Should we dtd again at some point or just wait?? My temps have been wacky bc we have had to sick kids and I've been. Up at night so they aren't reliable. I hope I didn't squander this mo th away. I posted this in my private forum as well but thought maybe some of you have been here!

I am no expert but I would just leave it with the one attempt if it was me.

I don't think you messed up your timing at all. 1 attempt seems to be getting great results for those trying for a girl. Good luck!

But we bd'd the day before I got a positive opk. Do you guys think it was too soon?

It may be a little lower odds of conception but one attempt has quite a bit higher odds of pink. So you need to decide which you want more, better chance at BFP or better chance of pink. :)