Ugh! Got a +hpt and H just said he hadn't FR like I thought

So I thought we had a pretty good attempt a few weeks ago. I lost a few lbs leading to ov, had long hrs between food/cals from night to afternoon in the previous 4 wks, and we had 1 attempt 18-20 hrs after +opk on digi (think I ov w/in 6-16 hrs later). I didn't want to put too much pressure on him since he is 41 and has a low sex drive/confirmed low end of norm testosterone from a sept blood test. I opted not to give him LR just cranberry and asked him to start releasing at cd2. I didn't mention it again assuming he was and would let me know if he had trouble but I guess he did it when he remembered and says the last time he did it before our attempt was maybe a day or two before and def not the morning of the attempt like I hoped. We didn't use a lube or anything, I just did antihistamines/sudafed/cranberry that night. Is my sway doomed? I'm freaked out now.

atomic is now thinking frequency doesn't sway (or doesn't sway much) anywya so I don't think you need to worry! especially if you only had 1 attempt.
congratulations on your bfp

If you look at the stats, there are plenty of successful sways with one attempt where the BD pattern is listed as "other." I definitely wouldn't worry now, it's done and gone and it sounded like a great sway to me. :)

My DH is doing it all and is whining every night about wearing whitey tighties :) Congrats on the BFP!

You probably would not have even been able to conceive if he had done the FR. i agree with what eveyrone already said and would not worry one iota about that sway. I got my girl with DH releasign in boy frequency pattern with one attempt.