big o question or lack of.... for ttc boy

I know that when swaying for a boy its better for me to orgasm. Well I usually dont...well sometimes but it takes alot and although of course everyone likes to "o" during sex but its such a pain for me that I enjoy sex more without feeling pressured to. If this makes sense. Hmmmm another reason I have 4 girls!!!

But anyways im wondering what I should do as far as my sway.....I was kinda thinking somewhere along the lines of the baking soda vibrator lol....before hubby & I do our thing??? & then use some preseed?
Any thoughts?

Baking Soda Vibrator??? I have gotta google that! Have you considered using a battery operated vibrator while with your husband. Isn't doggy style a boy position (I'm not a swayer)? You operating it in that position is, um, orgasmic. I hope that is not TMI.

Ha! I googled it and it brought me right back to gender dreaming. Lol, apparently this is the home of the baking soda vibrator. Man do I know nothing about swaying. I always thought you wanted to O during/after ejaculation.

I didn't O when either of my boys were conceived- I also have a hard time. If you feel it's necessary I'd use a vibe beforehand :)

I tried the BSF and hated it, it burned and I kept getting BFN
I'm all for the vibrator though, I used mine before me and DH would get busy, it would just make things more fun during sex and get rid of some of the pressure of trying to do everything right for my sway. If I were you I would just use Preseed and not worry about baking soda

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Originally Posted by Almost Complete

Baking Soda Vibrator??? I have gotta google that! Have you considered using a battery operated vibrator while with your husband. Isn't doggy style a boy position (I'm not a swayer)? You operating it in that position is, um, orgasmic. I hope that is not TMI.

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Omg!!! Lol...he would I think totally think I lost my mind & tmi but its not like he's against toys or anything but I think ones dipped in baking soda might just hmmm "get him out of the mood" lets just say. Hahaha!! I was planning on doing this without him know right before dtd.
And yes I learned of the baking soda vibrator on gender dreaming...I cant take credit for that one ;)

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Originally Posted by wishing&hopingforblue

Omg!!! Lol...he would I think totally think I lost my mind & tmi but its not like he's against toys or anything but I think ones dipped in baking soda might just hmmm "get him out of the mood" lets just say. Hahaha!! I was planning on doing this without him know right before dtd.
And yes I learned of the baking soda vibrator on gender dreaming...I cant take credit for that one ;)

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If you want to be discrete about it then go take care of yourself in the bathroom or some where private and then jump him when you're all done :)

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Originally Posted by dloui128

I tried the BSF and hated it, it burned and I kept getting BFN
I'm all for the vibrator though, I used mine before me and DH would get busy, it would just make things more fun during sex and get rid of some of the pressure of trying to do everything right for my sway. If I were you I would just use Preseed and not worry about baking soda

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Thanks this seriously just made me feel so much better about my sway!!

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Originally Posted by dloui128

If you want to be discrete about it then go take care of yourself in the bathroom or some where private and then jump him when you're all done :)

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Yup thats the plan!!

I have conceived three boys and baking soda has NEVER been in my vagina, but I was totally not shy about masturbating after DTD to get pg! Orgasm during sex probably isn't as important as an orgasm, period. If you can, masturbate before DTD and after. I did this twice and got my two sons :)