Advice please! BD now or wait another day?

I just took an opk that shows a test line aaaalmost as strong as the control line, it is really a strong line.

I should O on friday if I have a regular cycle but since I have started vitex at AF I am not sure if the cycle has changed.

Now, should I wait until tomorrow and probably be closer to O or should we BD tonight?!

Is there any risk we miss the O if we wait?

Sorry if TMI, but I felt my cervix and it feels like it's getting softer. No CM yet though, but I have been taking antihistamines so I am not sure to get any.

Would be so grateful for som advice here!!

Honestly I would BD today - don't forget those little wriggers will hang around for a few days! x

And good luck!

I would try today too and then not again until you're in the clear of o. Good luck!! Xx

Thank you ladies!

I have now taken another antihistamine and some vagitoral stuff (lowers pH) and will have a hot sauna. Husband will take a sauna bath too (not sure if it is important for the sway, but it's a common advice so why not...).

Feels almost like first time bd:ing ever, kind of exciting. We'll have some wine too - heard that's good for swaying too and luckily I have had it almost every night last week since we were on vacations.

I also have a sore throat and cough, don't know if that counts as being ill, but it's about the same level as when we got pregnant with the baby girl last time.

Wow, time for action, thanks for your support!!

I went on my akmost positive last month so pushed myself to wait until today and got a v v dark 100% positive this morning. Glad I waited but it was so hard x

As long as you are in with an attempt before ovulation but not TOO far before, that is fine. You do not need to do it spot on pos OPK, if you have an inkling it's going to darken up soon, it's alll good. the only reason I say to dTD at pos OPK is just for the sake of convenience, it's irrelevant if it's a few hours before or after.

Took another opk just now and it was super positive, 100% :-D

Thank you all for advice!!