how to increase odds of conception ttc girl

Hey all. Im currently in my 2ww 12dpo but I know im out because I have my usualy af cramps and a big fat negative opk .I refuse to take a hpt because I know there will only b 1 line. Ive loosened up on my sway alot because its taking so long to get pregnant. Im sticking to the diet just not so hardcore. Im not taking any supplements or using any lubricants. Honestly at this point I just want a baby girl or boy. So I wanted to ask how often can I have sex during fertile period to increase chances of conceiving and b girl friendly? Is it even possible?:worry:

How long have you been trying? I got pregnant on our 2nd month trying with only one attempt at +opk. So it is possible! What other factors are you using when you make your attempt?

This is my 3rd month trying. Last month we had 2 attempts once on positive opk and the day after. Ive only been doing the diet nothing else. :(

Congrats on your pregnancy! Hoping for a baby girl for u

I did a pretty strict sway in the last month trying I dropped Vitex. and got Pg. we tried for 5months. (with one attempt)

Sweet dream were all 5 months trying with just 1 attempt??

It took 3 months trying every day with multiple attempts during the fertile period to get pregnant with my last son and only two months with one attempt for this baby. I don't think more sex definitely means you'll get pregnant faster. Are you doing j&d or anything like that? If so, maybe drop that.

Some women ovulate quite some time after first positve opk. For example I ovulate sometime between 48 and 72 hours later. So it might mean you need more attempts after your first one as you could just be cutting off too early. Ask atomic but if you are struggling you need to get more attempts in quickly before you drop too much more of your sway.

You also might want to continue taking OPKs once you get a positive to know when it's negative again. That would let you know how long your fertile window is (if you don't know already). That way if you get +OPKs for more than three or four days you can make a second attempt.

Thank u for the replies ladies. Im gonna invest in some wondfo opks so I can make sure of when im ovulating and for how long im fertile. Im just scared if I only make 1 attempt and its at the wrong time that I wont get pregnant again.